Shortly after our chid was born an ex of Mr Severina reared her ugly head in our lives and tried very sincerely to take Mr Severina back into her life, even though our child was a little over eight weeks old ( a fact about which she was well aware, and doubly so her own sister had had a child at the same time which I thought made it worse as she wouldn't have liked her sister to be in a similar situation I am sure ).The person went to geographically huge lengths to do so and it was pitiful. I was very disgusted with this kind of behaviour from an adult for a very long time, and it made me angry that I never got to tell her that this behaviour was unacceptable and the behaviour of a spoilt brat.
Mr S and I were talking about it today and I was pleased to say I felt nothing, other than a deep sorrow that people who have had everything in their life think that behaviour like this is ok. Anyway, my point is, I think I have grown up. I wanted to punch this woman in days of yore, and would have done so given the opportunity, but now I just think how sad.
In another place and another life we maybe could have been friends, but personally there are some boundries you don't cross and when children are involved even more so.
Blind ambition is very ugly and this is the description I was given of her in this situation. Apparently she wasn't always like this....aaah we live and learn and HG wherever you are, I wish you peace and love.
